The “OTHER” Kids

There are a lot of groups in schools who get a lot of attention. These kids seem to always be in the spotlight and get the glory for their performances. But I want to talk a little about some of the “other kids.” Before I get started, I want to clarify: this is not a column bashing any group. It is simply my thoughts on some overlooked (and sometimes underappreciated) kids in our schools who deserve a pat on the back.

Being in East Texas, everyone knows it is all about football. Football is the lifeblood of many schools across the state, especially in our corner here in the Northeast. School boards will shell out big bucks for fancy, state-of-the-art stadiums for high school teams, and fans will travel far and wide in support of their favorite team. Now, remember what I said: this is not a bashing article. I recognize, as many others do, that football (there are of course others, but we are in East Texas, after all) seem to be almost placed on a pedestal above other extra-curricular activity.

I want you to think about something: when was the last time you went to a football game where there was no one you were related to playing? If you are a die-hard “anything” fan, I would guess you may say last Friday night. Because, of course, you are going to support your alma mater or favorite team.

Now, when was the last time you attended a band competition? Volleyball game? Track meet? And I do not mean simply to watch your own child. When was the last time you supported something other than football with your time, presence, and money? How many band or volleyball kids came around with a fundraiser that you simply passed on?

Again, I am not bashing football, or anyone who supports football regularly. In fact, I am speaking to myself as much as anyone else. It is a fact, unfortunately, even in the paper business, if there is not enough room for everything, you can guarantee that it will not be a football story that is cut. And to all the coaches and athletes and parents of those “other” sports, I am truly sorry and am working to correct that.

My point is this: ALL student athletes, whether it is football or tiddlywinks, put in a great deal of practice, time, effort, and heart into their sport. Same is true for band, academic groups, and Ag. Yet, often, these other groups are treated as less important or less valuable, which is simply not the case. Currently, I have a twelfth-grade son who plays football and is in the band. I can tell you that he put in just as much time with band during two-a-day workouts as he did with football. Once school began, he can be found at the field at 7:30 a.m. with the rest of his band mates, practicing for their competition. And most Monday evenings, the band can be found on the field until 9 p.m, putting in more time marching. Just recently, my son and his Tiger bandmates, as well as the Brahma band, competed in the Area Marching competition. Kudos to all those kids on a successful marching season.

So, the next time you see one of those “OTHER” kids, consider the heart, soul, sweat, tears, and time they put into their craft. And always remember this: a football game is much more fun when you have a band supporting the team, playing in the stands, and keeping the emotions high. So, congratulate those kids, as well as the other sports teams and academic teams. You never know: that encouragement may be what a child needs to stick with their choice and fulfill their future.